{"id":972,"date":"2022-03-14T10:58:58","date_gmt":"2022-03-14T10:58:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/finetanker.dk\/?p=972"},"modified":"2022-03-15T12:39:38","modified_gmt":"2022-03-15T12:39:38","slug":"tanker-om-at-tale-med-tidligere-tinderdates","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/finetanker.dk\/index.php\/2022\/03\/14\/tanker-om-at-tale-med-tidligere-tinderdates\/","title":{"rendered":"Tanker om at tale med tidligere Tinderdates"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Har du nogensinde v\u00e6ret p\u00e5 en date og haft 500 sp\u00f8rgsm\u00e5l du ikke stillede, men havde lyst til?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Det har jeg.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sp\u00f8rgsm\u00e5l som: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Hvorfor ville du ikke m\u00f8des igen?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Hvad synes du om mig i sengen?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Hvorfor ringede du ikke tilbage?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/finetanker.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/ab6765630000ba8ae9b497ad9f2f10c9d47b9b3f.jpg?resize=640%2C640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-975\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/finetanker.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/ab6765630000ba8ae9b497ad9f2f10c9d47b9b3f.jpg?w=640&amp;ssl=1 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/finetanker.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/ab6765630000ba8ae9b497ad9f2f10c9d47b9b3f.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/finetanker.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/ab6765630000ba8ae9b497ad9f2f10c9d47b9b3f.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/finetanker.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/ab6765630000ba8ae9b497ad9f2f10c9d47b9b3f.jpg?resize=560%2C560&amp;ssl=1 560w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De sp\u00f8rgsm\u00e5l har jeg sat mig for at stille mine dates. Og jeg g\u00f8r det for \u00e5ben mikrofon, s\u00e5 du kan lytte med og blive klogere p\u00e5 dating -sammen med mig.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lyt til podcasten Josefine og alle hendes m\u00e6nd fra <a href=\"https:\/\/kiosk.social\/koeb-abonnement\/?follow=JosefineJackEiby\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/kiosk.social\/koeb-abonnement\/?follow=JosefineJackEiby\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Kiosk<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kiosk.social\/koeb-abonnement\/?follow=JosefineJackEiby\">K\u00f8b adgang her: Josefine og alle hendes m\u00e6nd<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hvis du har et sp\u00f8rgsm\u00e5l til mig, kan du sende det p\u00e5 Instagram eller skrive det her p\u00e5 <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/fnr.kiosk.social\/josefinejackeiby-fortaelomdindate\" target=\"_blank\">Kiosk<\/a>, som udgiver min podcast.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kiosk.social\/koeb-abonnement\/?follow=JosefineJackEiby\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Bliv medlem af Kiosk her<\/a> og lyt til s\u00e6son 2 for bare prisen af en lille kop kaffe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Cap-Hcosdqh\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; 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